Alert moderator paul: 08 Sep pm curiosity is a fundamental human trait - please don't tell me how to think Alert moderator Gordon: 08 Sep pm OK, so we'll grant the curious have a few rights I guess. How about we drop the Q? September 4, Work etc 4 notes Comments. Perhaps the author is missing an important logical step: that it is bad to use your 'gaydar' then ACT on it in For the world way that can cause harm.
I have given and received love, I have perpetrated and suffered harm, and the conservative Christian communities that raised me are indelibly part of my identity. I read this book out of curiosity - as well having a bit of trouble with the dating scene.
That is plainly just stereotyping, and the use of the concept of gaydar is justifying that stereotyping. No, I'm not religious - just care about women. Personally I can rarely tell a person's sexual preference.