So if you don't have a group of people you know, it's very lonely and not accepting. That regime has failed but I think you are aware of that. I keep it all to myself. Virginians have always said, "North Virginia ain't really the south.
That's definitely a thing but it's worldwide - effeminate guys always have more problems. First, no, not anyone who questions Ben is bitter and jealous. I don't get what you mean. MA and VT are some of the best states to live in for gays. Things are changing now; a few years ago being gay was a taboo.
It's frowned upon by a lot of people, and there's hate crime against homosexuals here and there.